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Post by chilicandy on Oct 28, 2005 16:27:29 GMT 8
After reading through some threads.. i guess we , uncles and aunties can share some of our teenage life experience with the young ones here... , our betrayals....
When i was in primary school, i was having troubles keeping up with my circles of friends. I came from a poor family. And they were all mostly better off than me. so, in school, they were always talking about "videos , dramas " something that i cant participate in because i dont hav video player at home. So, i felt left out.
Then i enter form one. In form one , we have different students from different school all congregates together.. so, i am happy because i get to mixed with new friends, thus i can escape from the group that i am most unhappy with.
I got my own new group of friends, a rather large group. So, my old friends was kinda wondering why i am no more hanging out with them.
Then, there was one lazy afternoon, outside a school library.. i told a two friend of mine, the reason i dont want to hang out with my former friends.
The next day, during assembly, one used to be my best friend , confronted me about what i said... i pretended to play it light, but it was indeed embarassing for me. Next, i confronted my two friends, one of them admitted that she told them.
from this lesson i learn, i cannot simply trust a person to share my secret... A friend could think that she wanted to help out, but what happens, it only makes it worst...
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Post by agentpink on Oct 28, 2005 16:30:04 GMT 8
yea..but mine??well none of them really wanted to help anyway..i guess they juz enjoy telling ppl wat i've said..n some made things worst..i mean when two ppl quarrel,things will get out of hands and we will say anything we want n we like without even thinking whether we really feel tht way or not..n my frenz got me into troubles wif other frenz..so sick of it..
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Post by agentpink on Oct 28, 2005 16:32:47 GMT 8
do u realize how itz easier to tell somebody on9 our problems than telling a real life fren?
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Post by agentpink on Oct 28, 2005 16:34:54 GMT 8
rite now i juz hope my fren dun say i am copying her or following her anymore..n juz dun like to b categorize as someone who dun have her own prinsip..i do things da way i want to n da way i like..i dun really care if someone does da same thing as i do..
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Post by chilicandy on Oct 28, 2005 16:35:55 GMT 8
yes.. because online friends doesnt know our immediate friends of family, thus the "secret" remains a secret... ;D
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Post by agentpink on Oct 28, 2005 16:37:00 GMT 8
yes.. because online friends doesnt know our immediate friends of family, thus the "secret" remains a secret... ;D yea...how nice if everyone is like tht..den we wont get hurt..
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Post by agentpink on Oct 28, 2005 16:38:02 GMT 8
chillicandy b my counselor for today..hehe..can??
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Post by daniellover on Oct 28, 2005 16:49:52 GMT 8
hahaha...this wan looks so simliar to the childhood regrets wan...hahahha
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Post by chilicandy on Oct 28, 2005 16:50:09 GMT 8
yes.. because online friends doesnt know our immediate friends of family, thus the "secret" remains a secret... ;D yea...how nice if everyone is like tht..den we wont get hurt.. but u still need some true physically there friends... because the magic thing is "touch".. when ur friends hugs u, it takes away ur stress and unhappiness. A real face u can see everyday. Its still a balance . so, for those secrets that is too much to bear and u cannot risk being betrayed, tell it to your online friends. For those secrets that you dont mind being betray, share them with ur immediate friends.
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Post by daniellover on Oct 28, 2005 16:50:37 GMT 8
i have said mine in tat forum...hahaha
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Post by daniellover on Oct 28, 2005 16:52:21 GMT 8
yea...i tell all my stuff to my sis which i knoe thru on9...on9 frens are great...
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Post by agentpink on Oct 28, 2005 17:01:40 GMT 8
i only have on9 godbro..cuz not much girls i met anyway..those i met oso like same age wif me n dun have the urge to make net godsis
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Post by . x . Y u m i . x . on Oct 28, 2005 19:16:25 GMT 8
betrayals... hnmmm..happend to me 3-4 times... got used to it tho... so its like no big deal to me nemore.. to me if it happens..juz leave those ppl aloe..move on with life n leave them alone..coz i noe 1 day they'll regret for wad they have done...
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Post by eemun on Oct 28, 2005 19:24:39 GMT 8
chilicandy ... poor thing ...
do u guys agree with this :
Betrayal incidence is higher among gurls rather than guys?
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Post by agentpink on Oct 28, 2005 20:21:22 GMT 8
chilicandy ... poor thing ... do u guys agree with this : Betrayal incidence is higher among gurls rather than guys? dis is so so true..cuz guys will juz say wateva they want in front of da other guy n if needed..fight lo..but girls..summore have to act innocent n then talk bout someone else behind their back..rite?
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