jujulim
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Post by jujulim on Nov 10, 2005 9:31:52 GMT 8
Age is not the main factor. I don't mind if he is younger or older than me but have to consider all other things like the background, family, education, interest, personality/character, maturity, looks, can get along or not, have the feel or not, etc. Everything lah!! Anyway nobody is perfect!
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Post by PureBliss on Nov 10, 2005 9:56:52 GMT 8
I don't really think age is so much a factor. I think maturity counts. Believe me, there are older guys who behave as though they are still in their teens.. doing all sorts of silly things.. like they are compensating for what they lacked during their growing up years.. haha. So sometimes a younger guy can be much more matured than an older one.
I think +/- 5 years is good, 10 years still ok.. but not more than that.
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Post by violeenforce on Nov 10, 2005 10:45:59 GMT 8
love is just to live together HAPPILY... and of cuz age dosent matter... cuz i find lots of uncle got a hot and sexy girlfren and wife... mistress ?
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Post by Smurfy on Nov 10, 2005 11:14:37 GMT 8
For me, depends the difference of their age gap, living status, education background, maturity.... well i think it really depends, as in the case of Jessica's friend, it might be disturbing that you're 18 and your bf's 15, but when both get older, age wouldn't matter as much as it matters during the teenage years. certainly in a relationship there are other more important things- feelings, mutual understanding & respect, compatibility... all these added together very well transcends age. But of course, how big the age gap is matters too.......you certainly don't want your parner to be 20 years older than you, eh? But again, love is blind, so when one is in love, nothing matters and everything is fine...... oh well...... =) i think the age gap is a big factor especially during teenage time ... when stepping into 20s or 30s ... age is no longer the factor, and to be realistic and practical, i would think one's financial ability, maturity and family background will be the top factors ... Yes! about the same of view like mine. i got an aunt who are older than her husband for 10 year..~~ they live happily now.. n even my aunt look younger since she always goes for beauty care~~ No comment....... ;D I think +/- 5 years is good, 10 years still ok.. but not more than that. Atleast you mention about limitation of age "gap" here. love is just to live together HAPPILY... and of cuz age dosent matter... cuz i find lots of uncle got a hot and sexy girlfren and wife... mistress ? Ofcourse is very common. ;D Try to focus on if age of women > age of man. For a guy without proper background@status, matured outlook+ behaviour, financial status .... his little face can easily become White ler! ;D
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Post by Michelle on Nov 10, 2005 13:10:39 GMT 8
for me age does not matter.....
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Post by genie on Nov 10, 2005 13:37:13 GMT 8
for me age does not matter..... think it back, u wan to date with an uncle older then u like 30, 40 something??
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Post by irisrenee on Nov 10, 2005 14:12:37 GMT 8
I seriously dont thin so....my bf is a yr younger den me...but he`s mature...dat explains it all....
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Post by Smurfy on Nov 10, 2005 14:22:26 GMT 8
I seriously dont thin so....my bf is a yr younger den me...but he`s mature...dat explains it all.... Thats why i said really depends on age gap. For me,1 year is still ok. But what if you are 5 years older than your bf? (Imagine you are studying in uni while he is still struggling with his PMR) Or even 15 years younger you also can accept? I doubt it.... ;D
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Post by . x . Y u m i . x . on Nov 10, 2005 15:02:36 GMT 8
to me it all depends on the couple la.. age gap is ok to me.. but it all depends on everyone. if u love the person u wont mind the age gap wan la.. but hey.. not la until dat big la the gap..
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Post by eemun on Nov 10, 2005 15:22:12 GMT 8
i think most guys nowadays like mature women yea??? for my elder bro, he used to tell me that he doesn't even bother to look at small gurls ... and all he wants are either same age or older than him ... same goes to my friends, most often they will go after gurls of same age or seniors only ... is this a trend or what??? and according to my brother, he said mature women are easier to take care ... "maintenance fee" is lower ... as in no need to buy so many presents for her, spend a lot for her etc ... hehehehe ... this is so funny ... and for me, yea ... i dun think age is a big problem unless the guy can prove to me that he is more mature than me ... as in he must have his own stand and thinking, be my guideline and able to take care of me ... cause i need someone who can control me ... hehehe ...
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Post by Smurfy on Nov 10, 2005 15:36:25 GMT 8
to me it all depends on the couple la.. age gap is ok to me.. but it all depends on everyone. if u love the person u wont mind the age gap wan la.. but hey.. not la until dat big la the gap.. I like your "Emergency Break". ;D i think most guys nowadays like mature women yea??? for my elder bro, he used to tell me that he doesn't even bother to look at small gurls ... and all he wants are either same age or older than him ... same goes to my friends, most often they will go after gurls of same age or seniors only ... is this a trend or what??? and according to my brother, he said mature women are easier to take care ... "maintenance fee" is lower ... as in no need to buy so many presents for her, spend a lot for her etc ... hehehehe ... this is so funny ... and for me, yea ... i dun think age is a big problem unless the guy can prove to me that he is more mature than me ... as in he must have his own stand and thinking, be my guideline and able to take care of me ... cause i need someone who can control me ... hehehe ... You mean your 'guy' friends? They really wanna go into true relationshop or some other purposes only? ;D
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Post by eemun on Nov 10, 2005 15:49:33 GMT 8
hehe smurfy ... yea ... male friends ... they dun even bother to look at me ... muahahaha cause they want older women ... hehehe
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Post by Michelle on Nov 10, 2005 15:59:44 GMT 8
for me age does not matter..... think it back, u wan to date with an uncle older then u like 30, 40 something?? aiyo,not tat old la...i mean is older like 5 or 10 boleh la...is about our felling to tat person...
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Post by sylvia871211 on Nov 10, 2005 16:26:41 GMT 8
for me, i think if both thinking is enough mature then should be ok la.. there can be a 18 years old gal like a uncle who is around 30 somethings.. possible but if the gal know wat is she doing,on the other hand, a 18 years old guy can also like a 30+ years old women.. haha if the women dun mind... no problem wat.. they bigger enough to know wat they doing n most important is able to control their behaviour.. let's say, a 21 years old gal couple wit a 18 years old guy, the gal is working n got income however the guy is onli a student, here the problem come, they guy pocket money is surely wont as high as the gal, if the guy not matured enough, always bring her gf to watch movie, have expensive n romance dinner, how much will that cost?he cant even save any money.. let's say the gal know that guy dun have so much money n want to help him by pay the bill in the dinner, can the guy accept in this case? well, if he can then everything will be alright but if cant here the problem come... as my opinion, both know wat them doing n matured enough, age is not a problem.. the end~ kakakaka
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Post by PureBliss on Nov 10, 2005 16:31:09 GMT 8
for me, i think if both thinking is enough mature then should be ok la.. there can be a 18 years old gal like a uncle who is around 30 somethings.. possible but if the gal know wat is she doing,on the other hand, a 18 years old guy can also like a 30+ years old women.. haha if the women dun mind... no problem wat.. they bigger enough to know wat they doing n most important is able to control their behaviour.. let's say, a 21 years old gal couple wit a 18 years old guy, the gal is working n got income however the guy is onli a student, here the problem come, they guy pocket money is surely wont as high as the gal, if the guy not matured enough, always bring her gf to watch movie, have expensive n romance dinner, how much will that cost?he cant even save any money.. let's say the gal know that guy dun have so much money n want to help him by pay the bill in the dinner, can the guy accept in this case? well, if he can then everything will be alright but if cant here the problem come... as my opinion, both know wat them doing n matured enough, age is not a problem.. the end~ kakakaka haha.. so true.
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