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Post by [ -Jessica*Angelz- ] on Nov 9, 2005 8:49:16 GMT 8
Recently my friend has found out that her bf is actually 3 years younger than her and she is totally in distress...she has been with him for over a year and not knowing the truth about her bf...few days ago while celebrating his 15th birthday she found out the cold truth...due to the fact that he is working in his dad's company and always wearing a coat, not to mention driving a BMW as well, she assumes that he is around 20 in age...this incident has pop-up a question in my mind and i begin to wonder whether age is a factor in relationship...what do you guys think? let's share your opinion here~  |
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Post by Smurfy on Nov 9, 2005 9:23:24 GMT 8
Recently my friend has found out that her bf is actually 3 years younger than her and she is totally in distress...she has been with him for over a year and not knowing the truth about her bf...few days ago while celebrating his 15th birthday she found out the cold truth...due to the fact that he is working in his dad's company and always wearing a coat, not to mention driving a BMW as well, she assumes that he is around 20 in age...this incident has pop-up a question in my mind and i begin to wonder whether age is a factor in relationship...what do you guys think? let's share your opinion here~  Haiyo! Your friend really.........  Is AGE a factor in love?? Hard to answer you poll here.  For me, depends the difference of their age gap, living status, education background, maturity.... |
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Post by siewlee on Nov 9, 2005 9:31:27 GMT 8
agree with smurfy..i still think that age is a factor...really a factor~...probably the first thing to me..
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Post by bluesapphire on Nov 9, 2005 10:54:38 GMT 8
well i think it really depends, as in the case of Jessica's friend, it might be disturbing that you're 18 and your bf's 15, but when both get older, age wouldn't matter as much as it matters during the teenage years. certainly in a relationship there are other more important things- feelings, mutual understanding & respect, compatibility... all these added together very well transcends age.
But of course, how big the age gap is matters too.......you certainly don't want your parner to be 20 years older than you, eh? But again, love is blind, so when one is in love, nothing matters and everything is fine...... oh well...... =)
ps. 15 and wearing coat and driving a BMW? whew........
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Post by evonc on Nov 9, 2005 10:58:38 GMT 8
Age is just a number Look is juz temporarily Maturity tells it all!!!!!! *Phew* I dun mind if he's 10 yrs younger but have to have a mature mind and beable to stand for himself  |
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Post by [ -Jessica*Angelz- ] on Nov 9, 2005 11:05:24 GMT 8
ps. 15 and wearing coat and driving a BMW? whew........ yeah...he drives without license and he has to wear those formal clothes to work in his dad's company...seriously i also thought that he is 20+ judging by his looks |
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Post by eemun on Nov 9, 2005 12:18:41 GMT 8
bingo evonc ...
u re absolutely right ...
age, race and look are not the factors ...
money is the factor ... hehehe ...
p/s my sis-in-law is older than my bro ... so, i dun see any problem with it ... as long as the 2 can get along well together
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Post by agentpink on Nov 9, 2005 12:47:06 GMT 8
i tink itz a factor to me la..cuz imagine,when u get older..n the fact tht girls gets older faster than boys..kenot tahan la..ppl will start saying u r his sister..den if he older than u let's say 20 years..ppl will say u love him cuz of money..den soon u oso can fil it one..den u doubt ur love to him d..
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Post by yume on Nov 9, 2005 14:26:43 GMT 8
It's a factor for me, anyway...though others may think differently... |
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Post by eemun on Nov 9, 2005 15:32:04 GMT 8
i think the age gap is a big factor especially during teenage time ...
when stepping into 20s or 30s ... age is no longer the factor, and to be realistic and practical, i would think one's financial ability, maturity and family background will be the top factors ...
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Post by mintcube on Nov 9, 2005 18:51:17 GMT 8
i think the age gap is a big factor especially during teenage time ... when stepping into 20s or 30s ... age is no longer the factor, and to be realistic and practical, i would think one's financial ability, maturity and family background will be the top factors ... agree~~ i got an aunt who are older than her husband for 10 year..~~ they live happily now.. n even my aunt look younger since she always goes for beauty care~~ |
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Post by sylvia871211 on Nov 9, 2005 21:37:59 GMT 8
i think depend la...if both matured enough then should be no problem la... my ex is smaller than me one year.. well, on the age we couple that time ( i'm 16,he 15) both of us are not matured enough.. so.. end up wit sad ending.. but is a good experience wat hahahaha
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Post by Sara on Nov 9, 2005 23:04:43 GMT 8
age.. i dun think so.. the most important is the feel towards the ppl u love..
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Post by ssuet on Nov 10, 2005 1:37:25 GMT 8
Anything and everything also has a kelebihan n keburukan..
It depends whether u wana accept it or not..
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Post by teng on Nov 10, 2005 1:56:47 GMT 8
To me age is just a number , but i dont like dating guys who are younger than me .
and i do not have any problem about ppl dating guys young/older than them .
nothing can be stronger than feelings , its just all about feelings .
if you're going for someone based on looks , kaching$$ , age . Whats the point of love ?
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