*JJ*
Toddler
![*](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/stars/star.png)
Posts: 112
|
Post by *JJ* on Oct 25, 2005 11:53:34 GMT 8
thank for all of guys advise,
Blame ...i hope everyone in here =Please try to "Don't blame".. we can just alive only 1 time..if can better, why not survive as "Happy and Appreciation", i know it is hard for all of u here even me as well and hard to forget everything Chilicandy said true, "event" can make us to be stronger and makes us who we are now. i appreciated who i am now and i try to learn how to forgive people and how to "menghargai" everything around me even though sometimes i couldn't find out a balacing situation , but i told myself it will be better if you are honestly and loyalty to treat people and do everything without expected any benefit , then the good thing will repay to u..
outside :everyone around me hard to trust, nevermind i just know i m honestly and loyalty to treat people without expected any benefit,that is enough
|
|
|
Post by Jane on Oct 27, 2005 20:24:07 GMT 8
im onli a 15 year old girl...i haven walk pass anything...neither face any serious problem before...so im suppose to not have many regrets...but there is sumthing that i regreted ...which is i never treat my grandfather nicely...my grandfather is a very nice person...he loves me alot n he gives me wut i want...but sumtimes he is just a lil bit to protective which make me felt so annoyed...i dun listen to him...i dun respect him...neither loving him...but he is always there for me...when my mom scolds me..he'll protect me...when my dad wants me to go home...he'll tell my father to let me stay there...i never appreciate all this things...until the day he left me... i know all these already happened...n i couldnt do anything...the onli thing i can do noow is to be nice to my grandmother...so ppl out there...never be like me...appreciate things when its there...=)
|
|
|
Post by fiona` on Oct 27, 2005 21:05:31 GMT 8
im onli a 15 year old girl...i haven walk pass anything...neither face any serious problem before...so im suppose to not have many regrets...but there is sumthing that i regreted ...which is i never treat my grandfather nicely...my grandfather is a very nice person...he loves me alot n he gives me wut i want...but sumtimes he is just a lil bit to protective which make me felt so annoyed...i dun listen to him...i dun respect him...neither loving him...but he is always there for me...when my mom scolds me..he'll protect me...when my dad wants me to go home...he'll tell my father to let me stay there...i never appreciate all this things...until the day he left me... i know all these already happened...n i couldnt do anything...the onli thing i can do noow is to be nice to my grandmother...so ppl out there...never be like me...appreciate things when its there...=) i think we have something in common here.. ![:-[](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/embarrassed.png) reading this reminds me of my late grandfather, too.
|
|
|
Post by agentpink on Oct 27, 2005 21:59:14 GMT 8
hmmm..let's c..i am da type of person who blames ppl without realizing..n i can hardly trust anyone around me..in fact i dun trust anyone now..except my own family..i've got dis fren i tot i can trust..i tink i noe her since form one..n during form two,we went to da same camp..n i tot i'm juz a grass beside her..she is much cuter n much lovable..n ends up during da whole camp i felt like a loser..den da following year we happens to go to da same camp again..days b4 da camp i cried out to a few frenz n say i dun wanna go dat camp cuz i am afraid da history will repeats itself..but my frenz persuaded me to go..dis time itz better cuz da other members r my really close frenz n she juz mix wif da scouts more..but then through tht i felt more comfortable wif her n we turn out to b ok.. den in form four i masuk same class wif her..den we go another camp together..n we were quite close so i decided to tell her to sit wif me da following year..which is dis year..i enjoyed her company..i enjoyed gossiping wif her..telling her my probs n listening to hers..i noe she got a real cool godsis from kl..n they are close..although other ppl tell me she backstabbed them b4 but i juz tink tht mayb it was a misunderstanding..so i ignored it..
den everything change one day..i realize she told a couple of my close frenz tht i stole her boyfrenz..n those ppl r the ones she dun even noe tht she added in frenster..n i din even add them from her list..so i felt uncomfortable..den she start telling ppl i like to follow wateva she does..including da liking for daniel..n i cant trust her anymore..tht got me thinking..if my closest n bestest fren(at least tht's wat i tink) can betray me then who can i trust?
My godbrother keep telling me to tink positive..but i've lose trust in ppl n faith in frenz..i keep everything to myself..now i regret for trusting her..but do u tink wat i did was correct??i dunno..but i certainly cant trust her now..i dun dare to tell my probs to anyone cuz i am afraid they'll betray me again..i turn to computer,chat rooms n forum like dis where nobody actually knows me..sometimes i am so sick of life but bcuz of my family n my godbrother i hang on..but i really dunno how long i can stay strong..i pray whenever i am down..to get God's help n mayb He will show me da way to the lights..
any advice?
|
|
|
Post by agentpink on Oct 27, 2005 22:05:21 GMT 8
furthermore she is more cute n lovable compared to me n i'm alwiz a loser beside her..i felt like a failure for the past 3 years..i felt so uncomfortable..i noe ppl will ask me to leave her behind n juz go on wif my life..but she's part of da group of frenz i mix wif..i am avoiding her now but i still feel uncomfortable cuz she will show everyone stuff she did on daniel n hid it from me..i mean even if i dun like daniel i'll fil hurt oso rite?den another of my fren is hiding SPM tips from me..she does dat all da time n her reason is tht i am cleverer than her,so y shud she show me..tht's wat i heard la..i dun mind if i dun get her tips cuz my tuition teacher is well known for his accurate tips..but i juz fil so tersingkir when they hide things from me n talk behind my back
|
|
|
Post by agentpink on Oct 27, 2005 22:11:36 GMT 8
Bubble, i know your feelings...my ex-schoolmates had those kind of family problems... be strong... Bubble i know ur feeling too, i also same as you... Until now, i really seldom talk with my mom..i don't know how to make a communication with her....she is very busy eventhough before was same. No matter in home or have a dinner time , she always talking about "money" , i am very bored of this...maybe my father run away from us...she needed to take care our family so she needs to be stronger..Until i over 21 , i understandood everything. She needs me to be stronger person and independent too...i am very sorry to her (eventhough i can't open my mouth say a word"sorry "to her but i hope one day she will also understand i really love her,) I knew everytime i 'm made very quiet with her, because i don't know express myself. . instead of angry her...Unfortunately , so far she still don't understand me at all...may be timing problem...i wish i really wish she will understand one day ..Last time my father called us , he wanted to borrow some money from us, i suddenly shock! i didn't know it is kidding???my mind just think " he want money then he come back for asking money"..i am really disappointed at all...i don't know he remember us whether never ever????Before, i hope 1 day he will come back , but i think now is the time for ending Childhood regret.. i 've made regret so many times, my mom as well .....i just hope everything will be all right for me and my mom too... i'm from a broken family too.. n my prob is almost like urz..i face da same prob too..dad problem..n i'm so sick of it..but luckily now less d..i dunno there's anyone i can trust now..
|
|
|
Post by Jane on Oct 27, 2005 22:54:19 GMT 8
trust God...He is the only person who will never let you down and will never leave u alone...anyway.. Luke 6.35 love your enemies and do good to theme;lend and expect nothing back.You will then have great reward,and you will be children of the most high God.For He is good to the ungrateful and the wicked. =)
|
|
|
Post by agentpink on Oct 27, 2005 22:56:41 GMT 8
trust God...He is the only person who will never let you down and will never leave u alone...anyway.. Luke 6.35 love your enemies and do good to theme;lend and expect nothing back.You will then have great reward,and you will be children of the most high God.For He is good to the ungrateful and the wicked. =) thank u for ur advice
|
|
|
Post by agentpink on Oct 27, 2005 22:59:52 GMT 8
God is da only one i can trust now..oh btw..my fren is from a perfect family where she never really feel lonely or tersingkir..so mayb she dunno wat she's doing to me..i'll juz 4get all her bad n remember all da good ones..she was once a very good listener..n she alwiz get me nice stuff from holiday n her parents r real cool ppl..they let me stay during camps n stuff..i owe her too much 2 leave her behind anyway
|
|
|
Post by chilicandy on Oct 28, 2005 0:56:25 GMT 8
Regret ah.. I am not sure, I am a forgetful person, I forget thing very fast... So.. I just LOVE every one around me:- when you love them, you will feel happy and no worries...I believe that everything has negative and POSITIVE too. So, Why not think POSITIVE and be HAPPY.. and of course , must aware of the NEGATIVENESS.... to protect yourself..... SIMPLE KAN? I learn from my parent.. My father once told me that.. if you fall into a well, and there are 3 ropes that you can escape by climbing them.. but when you pull all the three, happen that all these ropes putus... dun worry, there are a lot more ways for you to get out from this well, just Think POSITIVE, maybe the water will come into the well and you can swim out easily from the well.... What you do is Believe and never give up... One more story to share with:- In a room, you feel very uncomfortable..hot... You go and switch on the FAN, sorry the fan is not working.. Suddenly you feel LAGI HOT>>>> and started to blame... why fan sudah rosak, but no one go and *fix* it.... >> hot lagi hot... blame here and there... But if you think again.. why dun you just walk out from the room, and get some AIR outside the room? The Point is:- Dun Blame or asking ppl to CHANGE just to SUIT you... but CHANGE / correct yourselft (in a positive way) - tolerance kan bagus... Not to say change yourself to suit other is LOSING YOUR OWN PERSONALITY, but is to change another language, for other ppl to understand you more... very nice advise.. i am going to copy this and tell this to my dotter.. haha, she also got a bit of tempers one..
|
|
|
Post by teng on Oct 28, 2005 10:23:39 GMT 8
Regret ah.. I am not sure, I am a forgetful person, I forget thing very fast... So.. I just LOVE every one around me:- when you love them, you will feel happy and no worries...I believe that everything has negative and POSITIVE too. So, Why not think POSITIVE and be HAPPY.. and of course , must aware of the NEGATIVENESS.... to protect yourself..... SIMPLE KAN? I learn from my parent.. My father once told me that.. if you fall into a well, and there are 3 ropes that you can escape by climbing them.. but when you pull all the three, happen that all these ropes putus... dun worry, there are a lot more ways for you to get out from this well, just Think POSITIVE, maybe the water will come into the well and you can swim out easily from the well.... What you do is Believe and never give up... One more story to share with:- In a room, you feel very uncomfortable..hot... You go and switch on the FAN, sorry the fan is not working.. Suddenly you feel LAGI HOT>>>> and started to blame... why fan sudah rosak, but no one go and *fix* it.... >> hot lagi hot... blame here and there... But if you think again.. why dun you just walk out from the room, and get some AIR outside the room? The Point is:- Dun Blame or asking ppl to CHANGE just to SUIT you... but CHANGE / correct yourselft (in a positive way) - tolerance kan bagus... Not to say change yourself to suit other is LOSING YOUR OWN PERSONALITY, but is to change another language, for other ppl to understand you more... wow ! ren jie jie , GOOD advice u have there ! *clapclap* like wat the bubblegum7 said , Im just 14 years old . I am not suppose to have so much regrets in life YET .so far , i've only regret putting on weight ~! haha ! ok that's dumb . but either than that , i really regret not studying in f1 + f2 . i guess there is still time to turn back and study . ![:-/](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/undecided.png)
|
|
|
Post by agentpink on Oct 28, 2005 12:53:57 GMT 8
oh ya...i oso regret for taking my form 4 years too playfully..so to those who r in form3 going to b form4..pls pls pls..dun waste ur form 4..concentrate..n when u r in form 5,it'll b much much easier..extra info..normally for SPM papers,60% form 4 40%form 5..but i not sure if all papers like dis la..but honestly..dun throw away ur form 4 years..dun tink itz a honey moon year n play all u want..itz not tht honey moon..cuz u wont wanna play n suffer in form 5 rite??
|
|
|
Post by chilicandy on Oct 28, 2005 14:41:02 GMT 8
why Teng didnt study in F1 and F2 ?
|
|
|
Post by daniellover on Oct 28, 2005 15:25:17 GMT 8
i really regret it??
i come from a nice family with my parents and one sister...i might be bad to some ppl but i dont knoe to others...
i know a girl since i was in Form 1...i can say that when im in my Form 1 life...i dont knoe a lot of ppl and i hardly mix around...coz im new to tat school...everyone was new actually...so im really quiet tat time...
when i was in form 2...this girl got in the same class with me...so i guess it was fortune to me...coz she is really a nice gal...i didnt had the chance to sit with her coz teacher doesn't want us to sit together i guess...so it was ok..we can still have a chat during break or when ever we are free....it was fun...we even went to the same camp during the of end year...i really enjoyed it...but i tink i kind of neglect her during the camp...i 4get wat was the reason...so sory to her if she ever read this...bt we did enjoy rite...i dont knoe...
come to form 3...she and i were sperated once again...she was in the class higher than me...so we hardly talk to each other...bt fortune came to us again...we went to the same camp again...i was the leader of the girls tat time...bt then i cant get along with all the other girl members...mayb they are all frens and they are all against me..i dont knoe y...bt then this fren of mine was very nice...she listen to me and she helps me..i trusted her and i began to tell her my secrets...i even ask her to promise me....bt i didnt expect tat she betray me and tell all her other frens my secrets...i really feel sad...coz da person i trust the most had betrayed me...so i went and the join the scouts instead...coz i have no other choice...i wish to get along with them...bt i just cant...
come to form 4...i manage to mix with all the frens tat once neglect me...i feel so happy...mayb it was because of her...i reli thank her for tat if she did tat.....we were in the same class...i reli thank God tat she help me in everyting tat i need to do...really thank her for tat..she is really nice...i mix with her and she was really an ideal fren for me..i wish form 4 life were longer...bt then it has come to the year end...
next is form 5...this fren of mine sat beside me...she was indeed a good listener...i knew tat i can tell her aniting....she was the best person i have ever met...i began to tell her all my secrets again...i tought tat i shud have forgive her and forget what has she done to me when i was in form 3...so we were best frens then....she tell me her secrets and ask me not to tell anyone bout it...i never tell anyone bout it..coz i already promise her..after tat...our frenship become bad...i dont knoe y...i duno how to say it...she copy wateva i do...at first it was ok...coz i dont really care bout it...bt after tat she come on9 and tell everyone bout my bad stuff..i said tat she steals everyting tat i like....and i believe tat it is true...coz it is really obvious...im really sad...i try to talk to her bt then i knoe i cant...coz she is a better speaker than i do...i wanted to tell her all my secrets again coz i knoe i can trust her...bt i dont think she ever wana be my fren anymore...sumore she tell a fren tat i have been 'tentang' her...i knoe tat is true...bt she did just the same as me...she tells tat fren tat her english is better so i cant really 'tentang' her tat much...im really sad upon hearing tat...
i might be a person tat can joke around and mix around with ppl...bt then she can do tat also rite....i talk alot...tats y i mix around more...bt she has more frens than i do...
so can anyone tell me...how am i suppose to sit down and talk to her nicely and be frens back...i really have no strenght to 'tentang' her d...i just wan frenship...i dont wan enemy....how can i do tat???
|
|
|
Post by Jane on Oct 28, 2005 15:30:59 GMT 8
dun wry daniellover...u shud just avoid ppl like this ! or maybe if ur sporting enuff...u can just forgive n 4get...anyway...im always here when u need sum1 2 talk too...! =)
|
|