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Post by idolhunter on Oct 19, 2005 14:41:25 GMT 8
;D Dear Uncles n Aunties...
Now this will be a good topic to start....
Let's all share your tips on upbringings of your love ones.. Well no matter how tiny that tip is...it helps... It maybe small to you but there are alot of young parents out here.. could be a big thing for them... U never know... ;D ;D
Ok... here we go.... ;D
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Post by idolhunter on Oct 19, 2005 17:37:45 GMT 8
;D Learning how to ride a Bicycle
I realise something ....
U know how we teach our kids to ride a bike... If U hold the bike too tight...while the child is riding... they will never learn anything.... becos they won't fall.... but if you let loose the bike... they may fall and hurt themselves or may have a bad accident....
so.... hold the bike in a way... when u think they will fall.. we qucikly support it...but then we have to let it go...from time to time to let them ride the bike by themselves...
Well it applys to upbringing of the child also.... Well that's how I feel... and like to share this simple technic with you ;D ;D
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Post by idolhunter on Oct 19, 2005 18:39:55 GMT 8
If your child got dengue..... let them drink lots of pink guava juice.. you can buy from any supermarket... a tip from a friend in Jakarta, Indonesia..
I got dengue last month... and yes..I took lots of it... it helps... ;D
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csl6267
Baby
I LOVE ANNABEL
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Post by csl6267 on Oct 19, 2005 19:35:33 GMT 8
During 0 years-4years old.....evertime baby girl got fever...I will forced her to drink medicine...you know...drank and vomited...
Now I get in touch with the natural food concept...and now if she get fever...
1) I will bring her to clinic to make sure she got no big problem...the last time is hand, leg, mouth disease...
2) I will give her to drink a mouthful of pure water only, no medicine....twenty minutes to half an hour per time for whole night.....mum no need to sleep, of course.....
3) The important thing is to tell her:"baby, come, we are having a war now....you must be brave....anything just call mummy..."
Believe it or not....each time she will woke up with speedy recovery at the other morning...
But the happy time is....when she told me:"mum, I am victory..."
Try this....but get the advise from your doctor first....
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Ren_2001
Toddler
Ah Shung Shung
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Post by Ren_2001 on Oct 19, 2005 19:44:18 GMT 8
OOH.. Thank you for sharing.. I read from few articles, Expert advices that not to let baby / kid takes Antibiotic... what do you all think..
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csl6267
Baby
I LOVE ANNABEL
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Post by csl6267 on Oct 19, 2005 19:47:48 GMT 8
OOH.. Thank you for sharing.. I read from few articles, Expert advices that not to let baby / kid takes Antibiotic... what do you all think.. First of all, of course need to get the advise from the doctor....but now I seldom gave baby any more medicine, even antibiotic....except pure water... But my baby is a vegetarian....I think it will be help for the foundation of the body....
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Post by lilywhite on Oct 19, 2005 21:06:13 GMT 8
OOH.. Thank you for sharing.. I read from few articles, Expert advices that not to let baby / kid takes Antibiotic... what do you all think.. Yes, in western countries are not advised to take a lot of antibiotic…Antibiotics kill 'not only' the harmful bacteria but also kill the healthy ones in the intestines. However, it's good to eat yogurt while taking antibiotics because yogurt will minimize the effects of the antibiotic on the friendly bacteria in the intestines. The live bacterial cultures in yogurt can help replenish the intestines with helpful bacteria before the harmful ones take over. Ren_2001, hopes it helps.
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Post by lilywhite on Oct 19, 2005 21:11:37 GMT 8
Okay, this is a good topic....this is mine....
The child will learn ethical philosophy by observing how you treat others around you. Severity, mercy & mildness….. are sometimes necessary. Always think before over reacting to the situations. The kids learn what they see….therefore the parents should start to tell the kids: I love you ….hug the kids…Believe me, they will do the same in return to YOU parents.... This has to start at their early stage…
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Post by eemun on Oct 20, 2005 18:02:27 GMT 8
OOH.. Thank you for sharing.. I read from few articles, Expert advices that not to let baby / kid takes Antibiotic... what do you all think.. yea ... cause they think it is better for the baby to gain immunity on their own ... but if the infection is too severe ... antibiotic will be the top priority ...
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Post by eemun on Oct 20, 2005 18:04:20 GMT 8
OOH.. Thank you for sharing.. I read from few articles, Expert advices that not to let baby / kid takes Antibiotic... what do you all think.. Yes, in western countries are not advised to take a lot of antibiotic…Antibiotics kill 'not only' the harmful bacteria but also kill the healthy ones in the intestines. However, it's good to eat yogurt while taking antibiotics because yogurt will minimize the effects of the antibiotic on the friendly bacteria in the intestines. The live bacterial cultures in yogurt can help replenish the intestines with helpful bacteria before the harmful ones take over. Ren_2001, hopes it helps. agree with the yogurt thingie ... if friendly bacteria is killed, most prob babies will experience diarrhea ... im not sure whether this is correct cause im not a parent yet ... but this is what i learnt so far from my studies ...
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Post by eemun on Oct 20, 2005 18:16:32 GMT 8
i have seen an article saying that a child learns faster at the age of 3, that's the time when they start observing the human behaviour, putting those action into logic, and imitating the behaviour from where they learn ...
i was once a kindergarten teacher and my 3-yr old kid hide the colour pencils in a cupboard ... when i asked him why he kept the colour pencils ... he said "cause no colour pencils, teacher will give crayon" ... he knew that 3 years old r not allowed to use crayon ... and yet his logic tells him that if there is no colour pencil, teacher will have no choice but to give him the crayon ...
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Post by evonc on Oct 20, 2005 19:33:43 GMT 8
Advise them instead of canning them!
I know a person, when he was younger he's a good boy. Why? Cuz he will always say cannot do this and that, my daddy/mommy will beat(cane) me.
Now that he is 20, when he is in trouble or need someone to talk to, he rather turn to his relative(aunty/uncle) for advise.
He is closer to this particular relative rather than his family. He tried but cant reach the point at all.
Lesson: When they were a kid, if parents really wanna cane them, PLEASE give a reasonable advise.
When they r teenager/youth, Canning to longer works cuz the pain comes and go~ while advise will always be remember in a person mind as teenager starts to think wisely.
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Post by idolhunter on Oct 20, 2005 20:10:00 GMT 8
evonc.... good advise...
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Post by evonc on Oct 21, 2005 2:00:37 GMT 8
evonc.... good advise... I think that the most important cuz the process of growing up does effect the manner and attitude of a person.
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Post by eemun on Oct 21, 2005 16:09:31 GMT 8
not sure whether i should post this thing here ...
but to all pregnant or breastfeeding mothers ...
doctors advise to feed with left breast instead of right ... that can prevent the babies from getting stomache ...
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