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Post by VG^_^ on Nov 1, 2005 18:55:50 GMT 8
i think over 18 is a best time to allow my future daughter or son to start dating with other people. But sometimes even though she/he go to date with someone, the parents also don't know...i think no need care about it
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Post by lilywhite on Nov 1, 2005 19:19:24 GMT 8
Hmmmmm ……. Age..... is a funny thing, it is like the "passage" of time that put all of us at a certain level of maturity. Well, my point of view is to focus on their preparation for it, rather than the day or age.
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Post by teng on Nov 1, 2005 19:56:09 GMT 8
Lolx . Actually if im a parent . i wont mind . =)
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Post by yume on Nov 1, 2005 19:59:00 GMT 8
Accidentally deleted off my post...oh well...
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Post by Ren_2001 on Nov 2, 2005 0:38:58 GMT 8
dun know le..
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Post by danielwong on Nov 2, 2005 0:51:35 GMT 8
i think when my future son or daughter are matured enough.. then i will give my blessings...of coz maturity in term of thinking, responsibility as my child, as a student, as a lover must be fulfilled...of coz the age i consider matured enough should be more than 18 years old lar....
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Post by chilicandy on Nov 2, 2005 1:08:41 GMT 8
my dotter is in standard one this year.... and she started to have "boy" classmate calling up our house phone number for her.....
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Post by danielwong on Nov 2, 2005 1:19:58 GMT 8
my dotter is in standard one this year.... and she started to have "boy" classmate calling up our house phone number for her..... wat r they chatting? going for a date? sounds impressed teenagers nowadays
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Post by chilicandy on Nov 2, 2005 1:22:56 GMT 8
what they chat? very weird...
about school's books, taken lunch or not, watching tv, what the other side peoples are doing...etc.. hahaha
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Post by danielwong on Nov 2, 2005 1:24:45 GMT 8
what they chat? very weird... about school's books, taken lunch or not, watching tv, what the other side peoples are doing...etc.. hahaha so as the forum mentioned.. wat age u consider is ok for her?
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Post by chilicandy on Nov 2, 2005 1:30:56 GMT 8
better if she finishes her studies.... .. better over 21....
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Post by danielwong on Nov 2, 2005 1:34:51 GMT 8
if earlier than that..schooling time, how? will u allow?
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Post by chilicandy on Nov 2, 2005 1:37:50 GMT 8
cant force also rite? haha, but i would try to hammer the message into her head before that happens...
if she falls in love quicker than that, then i hav to teach her how to juggles her time, and knows her priorities lor...
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Post by danielwong on Nov 2, 2005 1:43:29 GMT 8
cant force also rite? haha, but i would try to hammer the message into her head before that happens... if she falls in love quicker than that, then i hav to teach her how to juggles her time, and knows her priorities lor... not to be rude...but the so called s^X educations... young mum n dad is getting popular now but of coz when she is matured enough to know wat u r telling her lar...
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Post by idolhunter on Nov 2, 2005 1:52:23 GMT 8
I think it would be more interesting if we ask the uncles and aunties..when they started dating. ;D Well you know.. sometimes.. saying and advising is one thing.. but what really happened is another... I started dating when I was in form 3... ;D still wearing short pants... ;D sudah start dating lor.. take bicycle and gf naik belakang.. ;D pocket got 30cents only...go to ice-stall drink ice-kacanng only lah ;D ;D where got hagen das ice-cream ;D or ride motorbike...no money lah... ;D Advise is advise... but what is the truth and reality of the situation is more important....then we will understand more of our kids situation...n the advise will be more meaningful... My 2 sen
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