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Post by chilicandy on Nov 4, 2005 2:23:43 GMT 8
haha.. but now more peoples are getting married at later age...
thinking back, my mom never even say anything about me paktoh or what... it seems that they really trusted me....
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Post by foxy on Nov 4, 2005 18:46:39 GMT 8
started 1st platonic dating @ the age of 15. of course mummy not happy then lo, but then knowing that was the rebellious age, my mum use the tactic of not turning against me nor encouraging me. naturally, after SRP then, realized it myself wat was realistic and wat was not. and how my mom had been supporting behind me that she care enough not to give me a hard time.
so i think, yup maturity comes with age and experiences. believe nowadays ppl mature @ a very early age. so if it's really a platonic relationship, y not
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Post by vwayhau on Nov 4, 2005 19:56:38 GMT 8
30? She can't be serious!!! Many people are already married with kids at that age.... r u sure...I have 3 kids already at 30 ;D She must be joking lah... ;D duno her oo~~ she like very serious lidat.... =__= but.... i dun tink i will wait until dat age oso lo~ haha~ no one wan me edi la dat time!!
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Post by yume on Nov 4, 2005 20:30:07 GMT 8
My mum thinks it's appropriate only when I'm at university...
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Post by chilicandy on Nov 4, 2005 22:52:01 GMT 8
most parents dont want "dating" problems to interfere with studies... they are really worried if their children did badly just because of those problems..
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Post by mixfruits on Nov 5, 2005 21:48:00 GMT 8
My little girl is only 10 years old now. So this is not a problem for me so far. But im afraid that im a very protective mother,so i dont think i will allow my daughter to starrt dating in an early age.
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Post by yuRi on Nov 5, 2005 23:32:24 GMT 8
If you're mature and responsible enough, you can have one. I think its more appropriate to have one after SPM/STPM.. These are the really important exams in our study life. =) Chillicandy, your daughter so chun. I dont know how to do it ler. ^_^;;
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Post by sevelynn on Nov 6, 2005 22:52:39 GMT 8
Haha, idolhunter your story so cute... kakaka, i can picture the scene now... But last time the food how cheap oh!!! One bowl of curry mee also 5 cents only leh!!!!! I know my mom used to tell me about those ice ball thingy where u suck the syrup one...
Haha, to me i think that the more strict the parents are to the kids, the more they will hide about their relationship from the parents. Yeah, as long as they're mature enough and responsible towards their relationship i think the parents should support them...
But actually if i'm in a relationship i also won't tell my parents... unless he's the right one for me... then i'll tell my parents... hee hee!
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Post by aLisOn on Nov 9, 2005 22:50:47 GMT 8
uncles n aunties,if ur son n daughther really mature enough in early age n they wan dating,will u really allow them o not??? as for me,my parents dun allow me dating wan.they always tell me:"u wan study,then dun pak tuo;if u wan pak tuo,then dun study"..dunno wut they think.not only me,i got 1 fren also like tat.after graduated in secondary sch,she got bf.then she decided continue study,but she parents say:"study wut la..alr got bf,then after study go marry lo,waste $$.."then my fren now working only.when i heard she said tis to me,i was wut the parents r these..
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Post by eemun on Nov 11, 2005 0:31:01 GMT 8
uncles n aunties,if ur son n daughther really mature enough in early age n they wan dating,will u really allow them o not??? as for me,my parents dun allow me dating wan.they always tell me:" u wan study,then dun pak tuo;if u wan pak tuo,then dun study"..dunno wut they think.not only me,i got 1 fren also like tat.after graduated in secondary sch,she got bf.then she decided continue study,but she parents say:"study wut la..alr got bf,then after study go marry lo,waste $$.."then my fren now working only.when i heard she said tis to me,i was wut the parents r these.. ;D ;D ;D
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Post by eemun on Nov 11, 2005 0:33:08 GMT 8
and usually when the gurls start dating ... the father would be extremely worry ... usually more worry than mom ... and the mom will tell the dad "u did the same thing 20 yrs ago, u court other people's gurl too" ...
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Post by vivian on Nov 11, 2005 0:43:41 GMT 8
yaya true true! papa is always more aggressive than mama... =) somemore sometimes, he will pick up the phone n ask many things... haha! so funny listen 2 wat he asked! =p
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Post by joyee on Nov 11, 2005 18:57:07 GMT 8
anyway...if the parents did pick up the phone and ask a lot of question means they love u...hehe....XD
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Post by sylvia871211 on Nov 13, 2005 13:41:18 GMT 8
haha in this case, my parents told me that, i can date wit guy as long as i know wat am i doing n know how to bahave myself... of course must protect myself as well, but if i really couple wit a guy, they want to know who is that guy n some of his background so that if anythings happen on me they can look forward to that guy .. hahaha it's kinda funny when my mom told me seriously like that.. i think they gave me a lot of freedom n trust on me.. that's good~ isn't it? haha
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Post by soursand on Nov 13, 2005 22:44:00 GMT 8
and usually when the gurls start dating ... the father would be extremely worry ... usually more worry than mom ... and the mom will tell the dad "u did the same thing 20 yrs ago, u court other people's gurl too" ... Haha... ;D Mine was the other way round.. My dad was selamba only.. and my mum was the one....worry here and there...
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